Author: C. Anderson

3 Reasons Not to Ask Foreigners for Money

3 Reasons Not to Ask Foreigners for Money

“Do you know of any short-term teams that could come and work with us?” I was surprised by the question. It seemed to me that they were doing a great job without help from abroad. Inquiring further, it became clear. They didn’t need the team 

How to Aggressively Fight a Common Fear in Missionary Life

How to Aggressively Fight a Common Fear in Missionary Life

There are a few things I truly hate. One is when fear is used to manipulate and intimidate God’s people. Fear is such a powerful tool of oppression. We see it used by politicians to get votes from the fearful. Likewise, it is used by 

Doing My God Assignment Today- It’s As Simple As That

Doing My God Assignment Today- It’s As Simple As That

Life can be very complicated. So many needs pull at our attention. There are family needs, ministry needs, and the needs of the poor. The spiritually lost, the needs of those we are discipling, our own needs…it can feel overwhelming. Missionaries are generally compassionate people. We love deeply and want to do it all. We can’t. What we can do, is today’s God assignment.

For quite a few years now, I’ve started my day asking God that question. “What is your assignment for me today, Lord?

I find it helpful to listen to Him at the beginning of the day, to pause and hear His direction. There may be many things I feel I should do. But if I can narrow it down to one main thing, and then be faithful with that, it helps me stay focused. It helps me be faithful and fruitful.

We can not control fruitfulness. That is in God’s hands. What we do have control over is our faithfulness to the things God has asked us to do. As we obey God each day, listening to Him, and receiving His “God Assignments,” our lives will definitely bear fruit. He takes our loaves and fish. Then He multiplies them.

Unusual Answers

At the end of the day, at the end of the year, indeed at the end of my life, if I can stand before the Lord and know I’ve been obedient… that is enough for me. That doesn’t mean I’ve done everything I could have. It doesn’t mean I’ve been perfect. But I want to be faithful in the main assignments, the things that were not just good ideas, but truly God ideas. His priorities must be my priorities.

Sometimes, God surprises me when I ask the question, “What is your assignment for me today, Lord?

One day when I asked that, I heard His still small voice respond, “Go to the pool. You need rest.

Really God? There is so much to do!” I said this back to Him but I obeyed. I went to the pool.

Another day when I asked, He told me to spend time with my neighbors, to do a Bible study with one who is a new believer. Other days, His ONE THING for me has been creating blogs, videos, working on my book, or serving the poor around me. Some days it has been spending time in prayer. Or sharing my testimony with the lady at the coffee shop.

Not only do I practice this in daily life, but also as I plan for each year. I ask God what His top priority is for me that year. He is faithful to speak to me as I ask.

When I know that top priority, then though I am involved in many other things as well, I am able to focus. I am able to obey.

“Does the Lord delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices as much as in obeying the Lord? To obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed is better than the fat of rams.”

1 Sam. 15:22 NIV.

What A God Assignment IS

  • It’s doing what you know God has said to do.
    Ask Him what His assignment is for you. He will speak. He loves to talk to His friends. If you have trouble hearing His voice, just do the last thing you know He assigned you to do. What was the last thing He clearly told you to do?
  • It’s specific and clear.
    There are times when God is silent, and there are times when His direction seems vague. That isn’t easy for us. This is particularly true when we seek answers to problems or look for direction on big things in our lives. So I have learned to listen for clarity in the simple things. You may not have the answers on the huge weighty issues yet, but is there something small that is clear? That you can do as your God assignment today? As you do that, the other things will also become less confusing.
  • They are received by spending time in His Presence. We hit the pause button in our busy lives and taking a moment to listen. Sometimes we are on such a fast-moving treadmill that we don’t stop to listen well. I find it helpful to practice stillness before I ask this question. I use an app that has helped me to be still before the Lord and to pause for 3 minutes (or five or ten). When is the last time you completely stopped, even for three minutes, and were still before Him? This is a key to receiving His assignment.
  • God assignments lead to fruitfulness.
    Jesus talks about fruitfulness in the John 15 passage. Abiding in Him, loving Him, obeying Him, these are the keys to fruitfulness. As we listen and obey, we demonstrate our love for Jesus. This will always yield lasting fruit.
  • They are ultimately much more fulfilling.
    When we know we have obeyed God’s assignment, we can lay down our head at night and rest well. We did our part. God will do His. We may not have done it all, or done it perfectly, but we obeyed. In this, we find much fulfillment and joy. Doing the one thing, doing my God assignments each day gives me a great sense of fulfillment.

What A God Assignment is NOT

  • It isn’t doing everything that could (or should) be done.
    I’ve written before about resisting the shoulds of life. There are so many. The world, others, and yes, even we ourselves have many shoulds. We should play with our kids more. We should do more to serve. We should pray more. Those are just a few common examples. It isn’t about the shoulds. Many of these are driven by performance orientation or legalism. Resist the shoulds and listen to God. Do the one thing, your God assignment, and do it well. That is enough.
  • It isn’t responding to every need.
    The needs are vast. Because of God’s grace, you see them. His heart in you aches when you encounter need. You want to respond. That is a good thing. But responding to every need will burn you out very quickly. What is God’s particular assignment, the one specially designed for you to do? Do that and say no to the many other things that clamor for your attention.

What Is Your Assignment?

Have you asked Him yet? What His assignment is for you?

If you’d like to, let me know in the comments below or share on the Missionary Life page. May God give us all grace to be faithful and obedient today.

When You Need To Just Run Through The Pain

When You Need To Just Run Through The Pain

“One more kilometer to go, oh God, please help me do this.” My stomach was cramping from a recent bout with food poisoning. I was weaker than normal, but my heart was set on completing the race. My husband, running alongside me said, “Run through 

How To Move Forward While Struggling With The Language

How To Move Forward While Struggling With The Language

Let’s face it. Not everyone is a gifted language learner. It’s frustrating when your peers seem to race ahead toward fluency. They leave you behind, battling to get a normal sentence out without stuttering. Many very real factors affect our language learning abilities. Things like 

When Missionaries Don’t Have Genuine Friendships With the Lost

When Missionaries Don’t Have Genuine Friendships With the Lost

I was surprised (and a bit embarrassed) by the exercise. A seminar leader asked me to write down the names of 15-20 people I knew who were not believers. They were supposed to be people I interacted with in the course of my normal life. I was shocked that I couldn’t even list five names! This exposed the sad reality that I had very shallow relationships with the lost people around me. We can easily isolate ourselves in a “missionary bubble” full of ministry colleagues. We slip into lifestyles that invest little time in friendships with the lost.

My goal is not to condemn. I do want to challenge us to change. Without a guilt trip, I want to exhort us to reconsidering our priorities.

“You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden.”

Matt 5:13-14 NIV.

A Troubling Question

This year I will be spending a few months in my home country, the United States. We’re doing our normal deputation as we reconnect with ministry partners. This has me thinking about mobilization. What I can do to raise the banner for unreached peoples and the cause of the Great Commission this year?

There is a troubling question on my mind though. What about mobilizing missionaries? What about us? Those of us who live on the mission field and in countries that are full of unreached people groups. Are we being light and salt in those places?

How The Shift Happened

The exercise mentioned above is called creating a Lost and Saved List. Read more about it on my blog Pursuing Disciple Making Movements Among the Unreached. The simple activity of committing to pray regularly and specifically for lost people shifted my behavior in this area of life. Now my actions match my beliefs and values better.

I have a significant list of specific people in my neighborhood who are not yet believers. They are in my prayers and thoughts on a daily basis. Because I pray for them, I’m more interested in their lives. I stop to talk to them when I see them in the market. I ask questions about their children and engage with them in a different way. My “antenna” is always up, and I am looking for an opportunity to share my testimony with them. It’s much more likely I will stop what I am doing and pray for them when they tell me they are sick or in pain.

Sharing the gospel is more natural than it used to be. It happens in the course of my everyday life, not only when it is “evangelism” time.

I now enjoy deep and real friendships with neighbors who don’t know Christ. Some of them have become His followers! There is a much greater sense of fulfillment and fruitfulness, not only in “ministry time” but in my everyday life.

Are We Really Too Busy?

Again, I am not wanting to condemn but to challenge us. How many missionaries are busy with ministry activities but have few genuine friendships with lost people? We spend our days speaking, teaching, and attending meetings. There is much rushing around doing good things, but we don’t even know that our neighbor’s father is in the hospital.

3 Keys To Staying “Salty” On The Mission Field

1) Don’t Make Excuses

It is so easy to say “Evangelism isn’t my gifting. My ministry is (fill in the blank).” Only a handful of missionaries find evangelism something that flows out of them naturally. We allow ourselves to think this is a valid reason to say we have no active responsibility in this area. You know that isn’t true!

We go there in our minds, perhaps because we lack confidence to do evangelism. Or maybe we have not felt successful in past efforts.

Other’s will share the gospel with them,” we say. “I will be part of discipling, training, providing member care, organizing crusades…” the list goes on.

We as missionaries, like all Christians are first disciples, no matter what our ministry jobs are. Disciples must obey Jesus’ command to be His witness. All disciples must be light and salt.

Here are some hard questions, but ones we need to ask ourselves.

  • Have I shared the gospel with anyone this past month?
  • Could I make a list of names of at least 10 non-Christians who live near me?

2) Prioritize Knowing Lost People

This is a mindset shift. It doesn’t actually take a lot more time. When you buy vegetables, pause for 30 seconds to talk with the seller. Ask their name. Put them on your list and begin to pray for them. Next time, ask them how their children are.

Be friendly. Give some of your time and energy to interacting with those around you who don’t know the Lord. Are you really too busy? What if you made time for just a 30-minute cup of tea with someone who doesn’t yet know the Lord? Determine to give lost people at least some time in your life. Then go out of your way to go to where they are. Do they exercise at a particular gym? Do they play football? Go and be with them. Then engage.

3) Posture Yourself To Dialogue And Learn

It isn’t all about sharing the gospel, though as we build relationships, that’s something we also want to be intentional about.

Be a curious learner. How do they perceive and interpret current events? What is important to them? As you dialogue and learn from those of other faiths, your life will be greatly enriched.

So much of evangelical Christianity is in an “us or them” posture. This doesn’t lend toward the kinds of real relationships with non-believers where we are light and salt.

What can we learn from their viewpoints and perspectives? Are we willing to listen and try to understand their perspective, even if at the end we don’t agree?

Make A Lost List

Why not start today? Take a piece of paper out. List the names of people who don’t yet know Jesus. Start praying for them every day this week.

Let me know in the comments, on Facebook, or by email if you did this. I’d also love to hear any questions or challenges you have with living a lifestyle that is “salty.”

10 Books to Help You Grow and Learn in the New Year

10 Books to Help You Grow and Learn in the New Year

Are you an intentional learner? Your answer is likely yes, or you wouldn’t be reading this! Here is my next question. How will you take your learning to the next level in 2019? One way is to commit to consistently reading books that enrich and 

Is Pressure a Positive or Negative Thing in Missionary Life?

Is Pressure a Positive or Negative Thing in Missionary Life?

“People are feeling pressure.” I hear this from missionaries and leaders sometimes. Or I get an email from someone saying they feel pressurized – especially at the end of the year when reports are due. Others express genuine feelings of being overwhelmed by their work. 

Discover Two Big Lies in Missionary Finances

Discover Two Big Lies in Missionary Finances

It is predictable. Every spring when school fees are due in India, the messages and emails come. “We don’t have enough to pay for our kid’s fees this year!”

Desperate missionary parents send out appeals. Often they come in inappropriate ways. They beg people to help them. Their need is genuine and heart-breaking. This is not God’s desire for them. Many suffer in these ways. They barely have enough to pay for their food, housing, and travel expenses. Kid’s schooling is not a budgeted expense.

In fact, they don’t have a budget. They either threw that out when they started working in missions, or they have never learned how to budget. Whatever the situation, they are faced with a new school year. With it comes the tremendous weight of trying to find a way to pay for their kid’s tuition fees once again.

God desires for us to have enough finances as missionaries for our basic needs to be cared for.

That doesn’t mean we will get rich, and sometimes we will struggle. But we do not need to think that we will always live in extreme lack. It is not a good reflection of God’s kingdom and character when His people continually struggle to see their most basic needs met.

Can you relate to this? If so, you may have unintentionally embraced a poverty mentality. Or, there may be aspects of the character of God you have failed to understand. Or perhaps you have not taken the necessary steps to move forward in this aspect of your life. Maybe you have no idea what those are! This part of your life can change. There is hope ahead.

Kundun’s Story

A few years ago we ran a fund-raising training in India for some of our fruitful church planters who were really struggling with their finances. This is the testimony of one of the participants.

I thank the Lord for the fund-raising seminar. It was really a blessing for me, my family and ministry. Before the seminar, I was unable to share my needs with others. I didn’t know how to share.

In the seminar, I discovered how to share with my friends and relatives. I tried and after that, it really worked. I was able to raise my own support! It makes me happy. Now I feel I can raise support for myself. I am happy to serve mighty God. For 22 years I never shared my needs to others, because I didn’t know how to share. After I learned how to share I got a blessing. Now, I can do it. It is great for me.

Twenty-two years is a long time to struggle in missionary life, never having enough for your basic needs to be met!

What a joy it was to come alongside this faithful, fruitful brother and help him see that he could do it. He could raise funds locally from within India itself and from his own network of people.

Before this, he was plagued by two major falsehoods.

Two Lies Some Believe

One, he thought that he must depend on leaders to raise support for him. In his mind, they were the ones who had contacts with people who had a lot of money.

Two, he thought that if he wanted to have decent support for his work, he had to be able to communicate well in English. He needed to know how to produce a good newsletter and use a computer. He could speak some English, but writing well was very tough for him. And the only foreigners he knew were other missionaries. So where would he get support unless his leaders raised it for him?

This put him in a place of dependency on a few leaders, instead of on God.

In the training, we helped him see that there were more than enough resources within India. Sharing about his vision in his own language was possible! He didn’t need to speak English to raise up ministry partners.

Instead of looking outside the country, he began to see that God was able to provide from within. He found ministry partners within his own relational circle of friends and family. Also, he learned how to approach them, not as a beggar, but with freedom and confidence.

He invited them to become true ministry partners in his vision to reach unreached peoples. This was very different than asking them to give to him and his personal needs. Of course, his needs were a part of what was needed for his ministry. But the goal was not to ask people to pity him personally. The goal was to invite people to join him in his ministry and vision.

“Give me neither poverty nor riches! Give me just enough to satisfy my needs. For if I grow rich, I may deny you and say, “Who is the LORD?” And if I am too poor, I may steal and thus insult God’s holy name.” Prov. 30:8-9

False Teaching- Health and Wealth

There are many false teachings regarding money. One is a health and wealth gospel. This teaching says if we follow Jesus, he will make us rich. This is not in line with scripture!

As disciples of Jesus, we must be willing to make sacrifices for His kingdom cause. We must give up the pursuit of wealth. Jesus clearly taught in Matt. 6:33 that we must seek first His Kingdom.

God does provide for us. But that doesn’t mean that we can have whatever we want! It doesn’t mean that our kids will go to the best schools in the city, or that we will have a huge house and a nice car.

Our focus as missionaries is on building God’s kingdom, not on growing our financial wealth. When we put our emphasis on the wrong things, we go astray. We are in danger of loving money more than God (1 Tim 6:10).

False Teaching- Poverty is Holiness

Another false teaching says that our poverty and suffering is a sign of our spirituality. The more we suffer in our finances, the more holy we must be. This too is not Biblical.

That kind of thinking runs directly against God’s character as a good and loving Father. God loves His children. He is more than able to provide for them.

Sometimes He does that through financial miracles. My husband and I have experienced many of those! But more often, He does that by helping us to find ministry partners. These are people who believe in the calling on our lives and want to join us in our work.

Jesus Himself was supported by others! A group of women provided for his daily needs. If Jesus looked to friends and ministry partners for financial provision, why shouldn’t we?

There are a few people, who feel a special calling to follow the same path as George Mueller did. Mueller was an evangelist who started an orphanage in England in the 1800s. He felt he should not share about his needs, but trust God to provide. And God did!

They experienced many miracles of provision. As the children in the orphanage sat without food on the table, God would send them someone at the door with groceries. His was a unique calling and not for everyone.

Don’t Stay Stuck

Unless God has specially called you as he did Mueller to never share about your needs, learn how to do so in appropriate ways. Develop true ministry partners. There are some good books like Funding Your Ministry and The God Ask, that can help. Signing up for my free e-mail course is a good place to start.

Don’t stay stuck in this area of your life. Don’t wait until the school fees are due, then cry out for help. Take prayerful actions now.

What questions do you have about fund-raising? Let me know in the comments below or on the Missionary Life Facebook page.

How Do I Trust God in the Midst of My Visa Uncertainty?

How Do I Trust God in the Midst of My Visa Uncertainty?

After more than twenty years, he was finally granted a visa. He would return to the place of his original missionary calling. Visa uncertainty threatened to steal his peace, however, even in the midst of this exciting moment. His passport finally had the visa