Living faithful, fruitful and fulfilled on the mission field
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“I don’t have connections and contacts with people I could raise support from. I don’t know any __________________.” Fill in the blank. Some would say I don’t know pastors. Others would say I don’t know many foreigners. Some would say all my friends are fellow missionaries, I don’t know any rich people interested in missions.
These “I don’t” statements are a major hindrance to being fully funded as a Christian worker living on gift income.
If you assume people won’t want to support you, they will not. You may need to change your mindset. Shift from thinking you are asking them to give you money, toward understanding you are extending an invitation to be part of what God is calling you to do. It makes all the difference.
I listened to a podcast a few weeks ago. It’s an excellent one I highly recommend called “Strengthening the Soul of Your Leadership” with Ruth Haley Barton. She was talking with Adele Calhoun, the author of Invitations from God. They talked about the name of the book and why Adele chose the word invitation.
“An invitation is something you have a choice about. It’s not something you are being forced to do,” she said. It’s a great book that talks about how God invites us to rest, weep, etc…
Billy Graham wrote about the Invitations of Christ. In evangelism, he liked to use the language of invitation. Invitation removes coercion or manipulation from the equation.
It got me thinking about the word. When someone asks me to do something, it can feel awkward. Especially if I want to say no, but have a close relationship with this person. It’s a bit different if I am invited. I feel freer to choose.
Steve Shadrach has an excellent book on ministry partner development called The God Ask. It’s particularly written for Christian workers in the United States. I wonder if a better title would be “Inviting People to Join in God’s Dreams.” Not as catchy, but you get my point.
I find it easier to think of inviting people into something than to think of asking people to be financial donors. Maybe you do too.
Okay, that was a slight tangent. Let’s go back to the idea of how I don’t have thinking impacts us.
His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness.
2 Peter 1:3
The above scripture says that God has given you everything you need to live for Him. If He has called you to live on gifts from others, He has already provided the people who will partner with you. You just need to identify them.
How do you do that?
First, you must pray with an open mind.
There are primarily two types of people likely to become financial partners. Whether they give one-time gifts or whether they support you and your work monthly.
Sometimes these people will give even when they don’t understand or believe in your ministry’s vision. That’s okay, invite them to partner. They will be blessed and grow to understand more over time.
Are names floating up into your mind, even as you read that? “Yes, but…” your mind is saying. “They don’t have much money themselves.” This can be a big hindrance.
When does the Bible say that those with only a little money couldn’t or shouldn’t give to His Kingdom? Those with little money can be some of the most generous people on the planet. And as they give to God, He blesses them back.
You believe that right? We can not out-give God? That when people give to His work, He will reward them? Stop thinking you can’t invite those without much money to partner with you. They may really want to give to the vision you’ve been entrusted with by God!
It’s a strong word, but we need to use it. Repentance acknowledges a wrong belief and decides to think differently. Your incorrect thoughts about this could be preventing you from living the life of freedom God intends. Ask God’s forgiveness and go forward with His help.
You don’t have to show this to anyone, but make your list before the Lord.
Crafting your presentation of the vision is important. You will need to be able to share clearly what it is that God has called you to do and why it matters. Then practice saying it and at the end of your sharing invite people to be a part of it through joining your ministry partner team.
It will take discipline. As you start making appointments with people to share, those thoughts will rise up and try to keep you from progress. I find it helpful to choose a statement I will say to myself when this happens. Here is an example. “Jesus invited everyone. When I invite people to partner with a Kingdom vision, I’m being like Jesus. There is no shame or compulsion in that.”
Let me know in the comments if you can identify with the above. Have you struggled with the “I Don’t Haves” when it comes to personal support raising? Join the Missionary Life Facebook Group and we can chat further.
What is one action step you will take this week to move beyond the “I don’t haves”?
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“Jesus can do anything,” we say. Except for when He can’t. “What? Are there things Jesus can’t do? Isn’t He the God of the impossible,” you might be thinking. Yes, there are some things He cannot do. And there are many things we cannot do. The Lord of the Universe said He could not do anything by Himself. He only does what He sees the Father doing. If the Father isn’t doing it, Jesus can’t or won’t either. As His followers, we can pursue an only what I see Him doing kind of life.
What does it mean for us to follow His example in this area?
I have been in pursuit of an only what I see Him doing life for many years. It isn’t easy. Challenges to this philosophy assail me daily. Sometimes I feel like a little girl, chasing pigeons and never catching one. Yet I can’t give up. I know this is the life I am supposed to live.
There are so many things I want to do. Mindlessly, I often forget to consult with the Father. Are those things I want to do, or what my Papa God is doing?
Passions and interests drive me to engage in activities that aren’t necessarily where He is working. Sometimes I simply hope God will join me in what I do. This is a crazy way to think, but that is often my reality! At other times, my sense of duty causes me to put my hand to things that aren’t what God has called me to.
A final challenge to living this kind of life is when I’m heavily invested in something. I’ve put a lot of time and energy into a project, system, or relationship that was God’s leading originally. I fail to check in with Him about it. Is this still where you are working, Father?
How incredibly foolish it is for me to think that if Jesus couldn’t do anything apart from the Father… I can! I’m pretty sure I am not alone in this struggle, however. Oh…you too?
We often need realignment. Tragedy, crisis, pandemics, and many other events knock us off course. Mission drift is also common for agencies, not only individuals. Let’s recommit ourselves to only do what we know the Father is doing. It is there we will find joy, fruitfulness, and walk in a beautiful partnership with Him.
Facing the Pressure to Participate
The pressure to do things you aren’t sure the Father is doing can come from your community. This can be a strong pull on us. Especially if you are a people pleaser or from a highly community-oriented culture. Let me be clear. Community is important in our lives. We need people. But, we must choose each day to please the One, not the many.
An example in my organization is the multitude of meetings and conferences. There are so many meetings that “good members” are expected to attend. They are not required but attendance is a strong expectation. If you want to rise in influence within the mission, you must be there and actively take part. The more you participate in these organizational meetings, the more status you gain.
One day, I stared at my computer screen. I read the email announcement for the conference. Pastors and leaders would be gathering in a city near me. The speaker looked interesting and it had been a while since I’d been to one of these meetings. I knew people were wondering why I hadn’t been showing up. “Should I go?” I wondered.
“Hmm. Maybe I can squeeze it in. It would be good to see those people again.”
Then, a gentle voice spoke to me through a thought that floated across my mind. “Is this God’s assignment for you next week?”
Immediately, I knew the answer. No. It was not. God’s assignment was clear. I needed to focus on what I knew He called me to do…reach the lost. If I got busy running here and there to organizational or church meetings, I’d not have time to do what God wanted me to do.
“Lord, I’m sure it will be a good meeting. And I’m sure there are those you are calling to be there. But I want to partner with You in what You are doing here, in my neighborhood. If I go there, I won’t have time to keep connecting with people at the local tea shop, or on my evening neighborhood walks.”
I made my decision. My index finger stretched forward and hit the delete button to remove the conference invitation email. I would not go. Staying focused on my God assignment was what I needed to do. My decision would disappoint some, maybe even make them think I was a rebel or didn’t care about my organization much. That was okay. I needed to please God, not men.
I would choose to focus on His assignment for me.
So Jesus explained, “I tell you the truth, the Son can do nothing by Himself. He does only what he sees the Father doing. Whatever the Father does, the Son also does.
John 5:19 NLT
Jesus prayed in the garden of Gethsemane, “Not My will but Yours be done.” This is a prayer of surrender we need to repeat often. Our interests, passions, and desires don’t always match God’s will for us. Laying down our rights and personal desires should be a daily practice for a disciple of Jesus.
“I must obey God, not man,” declared Peter facing possible imprisonment (Acts 5:29). We live to please only Him. Yet our need to keep everyone happy around us, our conflict avoidance can keep us from following His will for us. We want to be liked. That means doing what people want us to do. In our search for acceptance and love from others, we may let go of our destiny.
In our busyness, we can stop noticing what God is up to. We go about our work and ministries without pausing to listen, to notice that God might be doing something new. One of the greatest keys to effective ministry is finding out where He is working. By joining Him in that, we see fruit. This is so much better than doing our own thing, stuck in a rut or old mindset when God has moved on to new things!
What will it take to realign and pursue an only what He is doing lifestyle? I invite you to join me in this grand pursuit. If it was how Jesus lived, it’s how I want to live too.
Will you run after this?
I’d love to know what you struggle with or the keys you’ve discovered to living this way. Please comment below or on the Missionary Life Facebook page.
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I imagine myself falling at His feet in worship, tears of joy streaming down my face. I picture him reaching out His hand. He lifts me to my feet, looks into my eyes, and says, “My beloved.” We embrace for a long time. He speaks gently to me again, looking into my eyes, and says, “Well done my good and faithful one.” My heart soars with unspeakable joy, and a huge smile lights up my face!
It is my imagination now, but one day…one sweet day…I will see His face. I hope to hear those precious words stream from His lips.
As Jesus’ followers, we all want Him to one day say, “Well done. You were faithful“!
How do we live faithfully in His service, so that dream will one day be a reality?
Living faithfully on mission with God is about stewarding what God gives. It is opening our ears to hear His guidance and becoming the kind of person the Father shares His heart with. He speaks His mind to those He trusts to faithfully respond.
A faithful missionary life includes:
I was praying in my hotel room one day. We were on a trip to a new city. I had oversight responsibility for our mission’s work in that area but only had a handful of staff and much to do.
Spending time with God, I felt connected. As I sat before the Lord, an unusually strong sense of conviction rose within. “There needs to be a large missions conference here. I want to mobilize thousands of young people from this place to reach the unreached.”
“Wow, God! That is awesome!” I responded in prayer. “I wonder who you will use to do that.”
The idea was brilliant (Obviously! All His ideas are right?) I was curious about what He’d spoken to my heart. There were many Christians in our part of India. They could be sent to the unreached nearby. As I continued to listen, God revealed more. I began to see pictures in my mind. They further described the things He wanted to do.
I somehow knew this was from Him. He had spoken so distinctly in my heart. God’s leading isn’t always this clear to me but this time it was! But what should I do with this rhema word?
For a few days, I continued to pray and listen. I then shared what I believed God had spoken with my husband and a few other team members. Each one confirmed it, agreeing that what I sensed was from the Lord. (This is an important thing to do when you sense God directing you. The confirmation of leaders and spiritual mentors is key to hearing God’s voice without going astray.) Taking the next step, I began talking with fellow leaders.
Some of them had led large conferences before. I asked, “Would you be willing to come and lead this kind of gathering in our area?”
Since I believed this was from God, I shared passionately. Strangely, none of them responded with a “yes” to take this on.
One leader I had known a long time, listened with interest. “It sounds like God is speaking to you,” he said. “Maybe, if God gave you the vision, you are the one who is supposed to lead this.”
“Awwwkkk! Not me!” I thought. I had never led a meeting for more than around a hundred people. The vision God was showing me was of thousands and thousands of young people released into missions. My friend’s words stuck with me like glue. I couldn’t shake them off. I knew being faithful to what God spoke meant I would need to step out in faith. I’d need to take risks to obey.
To make a long story short, two years later, we hosted a missions conference with 1,500 day-time participants and around 10,000 in the open-air evening meetings! When the main speaker canceled, I gave the final night’s message to the huge crowd. Hundreds of youth streamed to the front, responding to the call to reach the unreached. It was utterly amazing! What a blessing to obey and watch what God does!
In the Matthew 25 story of the Minas, faithfulness meant taking what was given and multiplying it. The servant who was faithful put his mina (coin) to work. He didn’t leave it sitting, or bury it. He invested it.
Being faithful is not only about the physical things we are given. It is also about the dreams, vision, guidance, and desires God has shared with us. It’s about walking them forward, step by step.
First, we position ourselves to hear God speak. How do we do that? We need to be the kind of person He would share His dreams with! That means developing a life of intimacy with Jesus. On the mission field, it is easy to get busy with ministry, projects, and even the constant pressures of doing what it takes to live life in difficult locations. Times with God can become rushed, routine, or even mundane. We do our missionary duty and have our devotions, but sometimes there is no life. The sense of closeness fades. God wants to draw us into that place where we can pour out every concern to Him. He also wants to share His longings with us, His dearest friends.
Are you actively seeking to hear His voice? Have you positioned yourself as a friend God can confide in?
Given a chance, God will speak. He wants to talk to His followers. There is much on His heart! He has plans to solve the world’s worst problems through His people. Creative solutions wait to be released. There are mountains He wants to move. During the recent pandemic, I often wondered…what would happen if Christian scientists started listening to God’s solutions for this global issue rather than looking only to scientific wisdom and knowledge.
Once He speaks, how do we respond? Faithfulness is demonstrated by action.
We don’t have to be perfect. God does love it, however, when we take immediate steps of faith. Most likely, the things God has spoken, are much bigger than your capacity, skills, and experience. Is Jesus calling you, like Peter, to get out of the boat? To walk on water? Trust Him and step out in faith.
A good steward not only takes initial steps of faith. They continue to walk by faith until they see the dream of God fulfilled. This requires perseverance. We face obstacles, difficulties, and spiritual warfare as we move forward. What do we do at that point? A faithful steward pushes through the problems. They ask God for further guidance. Faithful stewards refuse to give up until the vision is accomplished. They know God’s words will come to pass, and He will accomplish His purpose (Prov. 19:21). This journey of risk-taking and obedience develops the character of Christ in us (Rom. 5:3,4).
Are you living faithfully on the mission field? What dream has God shared with you? What word has He spoken that you knew was for you? Are you still listening? Keep going forward! He is going to accomplish what He promised through you!
Maybe you’ve been paralyzed by fear. Perhaps you pushed aside and conveniently forgot what He spoke to you years ago.
Repent for not stewarding His words, direction, or vision. Receive his forgiveness – it’s yours (1 John 1:9)! Reach out for His help to take new risks of faith.
He is with you! He loves you. You are His beloved! By His grace, you will one day be called His faithful one.
What do you sense God is highlighting for you in the article above? We’d love to hear about it in the comments or on the Missionary Life Facebook page.
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