Author: C. Anderson

How to Love People That Make You Sick at Heart

How to Love People That Make You Sick at Heart

Have you ever met a missionary who seemed angry with the people of the country they worked in? Their mouths are always spouting off negative comments about the traffic, the food, and the way of life of the people in their host country? It’s an 

5 Barriers That Will Ruin You as a Cross-Cultural Minister

5 Barriers That Will Ruin You as a Cross-Cultural Minister

Reverse culture shock…it’s real. I’d returned to the United States after many years in India. Why do we need to make appointments two weeks in advance to see our friends? When I stop by, why am I not invited in for tea? I felt confused. 

Try Praying This Prayer For Your Disciples (and Yourself!)

Try Praying This Prayer For Your Disciples (and Yourself!)

The Lord’s Prayer is a wonderful model. We use it to teach new disciples how to pray. There are other prayers our Lord prayed that can be instructive to us as missionaries as well. In this article, we will spend time looking at the prayer Jesus prayed for His disciples. It is found in John chapter seventeen.

As we study this prayer of Jesus, we discover key concepts for life, ministry, and intercession. Our Lord’s prayers were outward focused. They were based on a deep love for His disciples. His prayers focused on God’s glory and Kingdom coming to earth.

Lessons From Jesus’ John 17 Prayer

1. Pray for Wholeness.

John 17:15-19 My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth. As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world. For them, I sanctify myself, that they too may be truly sanctified.

Jesus prayed that we would stay in the world, not be extracted from it. We are called to live in the world and shine as bright lights, reflecting His glory. So often as Christians, and even missionaries, we build a Christian space (bubble) where we “live.” Jesus said He has sent us into the world, to live as those who are different, those who are being made whole. He uses the word sanctified.

What is sanctification? It seems like a heavy theological word we would use in seminary not everyday life. Dictionary.com defines sanctification this way, “to make holy; set apart as sacred; consecrate.” Again, more big religious words.

Ruth Haley Barton explained this on a recent podcast. She said consecration, or holiness, has to do with wholeness, more than with doing everything perfectly. I love that! Yes! This happens as Jesus lives in and transforms us. We are being made whole. His life in us brings healing to our brokenness. We are sanctified.

As Jesus said, He was sanctified so his disciples could be sanctified. Missionaries and disciple makers must pursue ongoing wholeness and transformation. Only as we do this, are those we are training and ministering to are also going to enter that same wholeness. Jesus did this for us, we must do it for others as well.

2. Pray Generational Prayers.

John 17:20 My prayer is not for them alone, I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message.

A church planting coach I know often asks his coachees this question. “How are your disciple’s disciples doing?” If we want to see the rapid growth of God’s Kingdom, we need to think beyond the person we are sharing Christ with or training as a disciple. We need to think and pray for their disciples too.

This morning, in my quiet time, I prayed for my children. I also prayed for my grandson. He is my daughter’s son. I take great delight in praying for him. It’s a generational prayer.

How often do you pray for those you are investing in? Fairly often I would guess! It’s far less likely that you pray regularly for those they are now, or will one day disciple in the future. Maybe they aren’t even witnessing to others yet. Jesus prayed for “those who will believe in me through their message” John 17:20 NIV. He prayed for His disciple’s disciples.

We get what we pray for! Begin to pray not only for your disciples, but for those who will believe in Jesus through their message, through their witness. As you do that, you will begin to see a multiplication of disciples. God answers our prayers!

3. Pray for Unity and Community – for the Sake of the World

John 17:21-23 “that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one- I in them and you in me- so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.”

It’s an incredible prayer Jesus prays over us! That we would be one as He and the Father are one. Perfect unity is not easy to achieve. It can only happen as Christ lives in us.

Notice the word “glory” in this passage. As we reflect the unity of the God-head, there is glory present. Glory is the manifest Presence of God reflected and demonstrated to the world. Nothing shows off who God is in a greater way, then when His people walk in loving submission to one another, honoring and serving each other. In a world so filled with self-centeredness, we stand out. Unity is noticeable and attractive. It is worth pursuing. It is worth praying for.

What does this unity look like? Its not sameness. It’s loving relationships that are deep and genuine. This means overlooking one another’s irritating personality traits. It is choosing to believe the best, choosing to honor rather than criticize. We overlook a “multitude of sins” (1 Cor. 13).

4. Pray that His Glory Would Be Seen

John 17:24-26 “Father, I want those you have given me to be with me where I am, and to see my glory, the glory you have given me because you loved me before the creation of the world. Righteous Father, though the world does not know you, I know you and they know that you have sent me. I have made you known to them, and will continue to make you known in order that the love you have for me may be in them and that I myself may be in them.”

We must ask God to renew our passion to see His glory! We ask the Father, as Jesus did, for the grace to have fresh revelation of who He is, each and every day. When we see Him anew, we are able to enter His Presence. We draw near.

Jesus said, “I know you and they know that you have sent me…” How will the world recognize that God Himself has sent us to them? It is as we continue to draw close, as we continue to pursue Him. Jesus makes Him known to us, so we too can make the Father known to the world.

Pray for yourself and those you train or lead to have fresh revelation of God in their lives today. Pray that they will be able to see His glory, who He is in new ways. The result will be that the world will see Him too as He lives more fully within us.

Praying This Prayer With Christ

I take great comfort in knowing that Jesus intercedes for me. Not only did He pray this prayer so many years ago, today He lives as our intercessor today. He prays for you. He prays for those who will come to know the Father through your message.

Why not join Jesus and pray with Him this week? Take this passage and pray it. Insert your name or the name of your disciples into the text. For example, pray like this, “Sanctify Francis by your truth; your word is truth. As you sent me, C. Anderson, into the world, I have sent Francis into the world. For Francis, I sanctify myself so he too may be truly sanctified….” Get the idea?

Let me know how that goes in the comments below or on the Missionary Life Facebook group.

When You Lack Strength

When You Lack Strength

Scripture sometimes frustrates me. I get annoyed when the realities of scripture don’t seem to match my life. Ever happen to you? Like the verse found in Isaiah 40:31, “they will run and not grow weary…” Hmmm. I get tired, really tired, sometimes. Perhaps you 

5 Ways to Love Emotionally Unhealthy People

5 Ways to Love Emotionally Unhealthy People

It’s a bit of a cliché, but it’s true. Wounded people wound others. When someone lashes out at you in an extreme way, it is likely more their issue than yours. We need the wisdom to know how to love emotionally unhealthy people. I wish 

Roots and Foundations: Preparing for Your Calling

Roots and Foundations: Preparing for Your Calling

As we go to new nations and begin ministry there, the idea of fruitfulness is on our minds. We imagine the impact we can have and the lives that will be changed because of us being there. This is a noble thing. We should desire fruitful, impactful lives. 

In John 15, Jesus, talking to his disciples, gives us the biggest key of all to bearing fruit. It isn’t some complicated tool or clever missional approach. Instead, it is as simple as it can be. “Remain in me”, He says, “you will bear much fruit.” 

“ Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.”

Jesus

He gives the powerful illustration of Himself as the vine, and us as branches attached to the vine. If you have any experience farming or gardening you know this. If you remove a branch from it’s connection to the vine it becomes useless.

It will slowly die, and fade away. It has lost its purpose.

Even if that branch wanted to, it has no way of producing fruit. Why? It has no connection to a root system that will give it nutrients, the things which give it life, and make it healthy.

Powerless to Produce Fruit

Jesus says that the same is true of us in both our life and pursuit of fruitful ministry. We are dead, when separated from Him. We have no power within ourselves to produce fruit.

God has given us many gifts to use for His Kingdom. We may have done much to prepare ourselves for mission and developed skills to help us have an impact. These are great, but mean nothing if we are not rooted in Jesus.

What Does It Mean To Be Rooted?

To be rooted in Jesus, simply refers to our ongoing connection to Christ. It is about our relationship with Him.

There should be no greater priority in our lives or ministry than our intimacy with Jesus. It’s such a simple key to fruit-bearing! Yet in a busy, demanding world, it’s so easy to lose focus, to be distracted, and have our time with Jesus squeezed out.

That’s only avoidable when we make it a great focus, when we consistently create space in our day that is for our Lord. We must make Him a part of every aspect of our lives.

 “Jesus taught that your highest priority must be your relationship with Him. If anything detracts you from that relationship, that activity is not from God. God will not ask you to do something that hinders your relationship with Christ.”

Henry Blackaby 

Check Yourself

It’s good to evaluate your relationship with the Lord. There are three core areas essential to a healthy, intimate relationship with Jesus. We will call these the triple-core.

Often we gravitate to one of these more naturally. Another is more challenging. If we do not have all of these elements present in our walk of faith, we will find our relationship with Jesus unbalanced.

The triple core is:

1) the Word (reading, studying memorizing or meditating on, scripture.)

2) prayer (conversation with God.)

3) worship (praise and adoration of God.)

We need to know the Word of God. It is the foundation of truth and necessary for relationship with Him. We need prayer because it brings us from a faith based on knowledge into an actual relationship with God. Worship is needed because as we discover more of God’s nature and character, it is the only true and right response to Him.

Take time often to evaluate these three areas of your walk with God. The depth of your relationship with God is a key ingredient in your journey into missions. It is always God who puts in our hearts a desire to share our faith. It is always God who puts in our hearts a desire to go to the nations. It is always God who puts in our hearts a desire to see communities transformed.

He was the one who has called you into missions and He wants to be a part of every step of the journey to get you there. Be assured that God is not in a hurry to do this. His relationship with you is His top priority for you.

God’s not a general giving orders. He’s a loving Father.

He is not a military general rushing you out to war. He is a loving Father wanting to work together with His children to expand His family.

Those of us who have more driven, task-orientated personalities, can find ourselves running ahead. We charge into the next task while forsaking, or at least minimizing the relationship.

For God, every moment spent with you is precious. Everything you do in preparation to “get there” is important to Him, as important as what we do when we actually “get there”.

Jesus shares a story in Matthew seven about a wise and foolish builder. You probably know the story, it’s a staple of children’s ministry programs worldwide. The foundations that the builders lay affects the ability of the house to withstand the coming storm.

I guarantee that if you are in ministry for any length of time, you will face storms. Living on the mission field magnifies both the intensity and frequency of these storms.

Building Foundations Takes Time

A good foundation takes time to build. Foundation building is the season you are in as you prepare for ministry overseas. Because God is relational, there is no formula for how long this might take or the steps that He may have us go through. Look at some of these examples of God’s preparation for calling found in the Bible:

Moses was raised as a prince, a grandchild of Pharaoh. But it was not from this position that God called him to free the Israelites. After murdering an Egyptian, Moses spent forty years exiled in the wilderness. Only after this, He was ready to step into his true calling. It was then that God dramatically encountered him through a burning bush.

David was anointed by Samuel, the chief prophet of Israel at the time, to be King of Israel as a young boy. We do not know the exact age but theologians believe it was between the age of ten and fifteen. He did not become that King until he was age thirty. He spent 15 (or more years) shepherding, serving King Saul, and then fleeing from him. This happened before God released him to fulfill his calling.

When Paul was saved by one of the most dramatic conversion experiences of all time, one would think he would start ministry immediately. That’s not what happens. The Bible is remarkably quiet on what happened in the first twelve years after Paul’s salvation. We know he spent two years in Arabia. He preached for a while in Jerusalem, where he faced some persecution and fled to Tarsus for nine years. God was preparing Paul for effective ministry and his true calling as a minister to the Gentiles. He would become the greatest evangelist to ever walk the earth.

Elisha, the prophet, was a young man when Elijah adopted him as a son, threw his mantle on him, and in doing so, called him into the position of a prophet. Yet for the seven or eight years, he served Elijah, no events involving him are recorded in Scripture. He reenters the story only as Elijah is about to be taken to Heaven. He famously asked for a double portion of the inheritance. What was God doing in this season to prepare Elisha for his ministry to come?

Although Jesus was the son of God and was divinely born on earth, it wasn’t until he was thirty years old that Jesus was released into ministry. We know surprisingly little about Jesus’s childhood and early adulthood. We know that he grew in “wisdom and stature, and favor with God and man” (Luke 2:52). How was God working in Jesus to prepare Him for His calling in this period?

It is interesting that in most of these stories, we do not know what was happening during these seasons of preparation.

Set Up to Be Fruitful

It is the journey with God that sets you up for fruitfulness. Do not rush this process. Do not take it slowly either. Seek the Lord and follow His timing, obeying every step along the way.

Sometimes this guidance will be clear and the steps will have an obvious purpose. At other points the waters will be more murky and you may not even know the reasons why you are taking a step forward. Filter every decision through your calling, but always obey the voice of the Lord when it is clear, even if you do not understand the reasons why.

I want to end this aricle by reviewing these two important points.

1) The season of deepening our spiritual roots is never over.

2) God is always preparing us for things that are to come.

We are not talking about a season of preparation and then a life of fruitful ministry. The preparation season we are talking about is a unique season to ready you for the field. It doesn’t stop there though. There are always new levels of depth with God.

The next vision or call released from God will require new foundations and yet deeper roots. We do not ever want to think that we have arrived. We also don’t want to think we need to have reached a certain level before we are ready for the call of God.

Discussion questions:

  1. Which of the three areas in the triple-core of our relationship with God (word, prayer, and worship) are you more naturally drawn to? Which is the most challenging for you?
  1. How is God asking you to strengthen your relationship with Him in one of those areas?

This week, set a goal for yourself in each of the areas in the triple-core that will enhance your spiritual growth. We’d love to hear what that goal is in the comments below or on the Missionary Life Facebook page. 

This week’s blog was written by Andy Yaxley.

Does My Pace of Life Reflect Jesus?

Does My Pace of Life Reflect Jesus?

“Do more! Bigger is better! Climb the highest mountain! You can have it all!” Recognize anything about these statements? I’ve been thinking a lot about the importance of a steady life pace. Does the pace of my life reflect the Way of Jesus? It’s an 

Does It Really Matter What a Missionary Eats?

Does It Really Matter What a Missionary Eats?

“A vacation? I don’t need that! It’s expensive,” we say. “The needs of the ministry are too pressing.” The same goes for food, exercise, rest…even fun. Missionaries take care of everyone else, but self-care is usually last on our long list of needs. This philosophy 

6 Ways to Grow a Strong Relationship With Your Sending Church

6 Ways to Grow a Strong Relationship With Your Sending Church

Mission work often attracts mavericks. The challenge, the adventure of going to a far off and difficult place, it inspires pioneer types. Not every missionary has a maverick personality, but many do. These character qualities are a great help in the boldness and tenacity needed for missionary life. They also have a negative side.

It is important to live in submission to authority. We can not afford to operate without spiritual covering, even if we have an entrepreneurial personality.

One place to find that covering is through your missions agency. Another is through a home church. There is great value in establishing a strong, healthy relationship with a sending church. It will help you thrive and be sustained for the long-term.

Prayers and Love from Home

I was deathly sick. I’d been evacuated from Nepal to a hospital in Bangkok. Thank God for insurance that paid for my flights. A complicated relapse of hepatitis had made my fingernails and the whites of my eyes as yellow as a ripe banana. My skin was horribly itchy as the bile built up in my body.

My liver wasn’t functioning well. Doctors came and went from my room, fascinated with my medical condition, but with no clear diagnosis or treatment plan. Calls were made to infectious disease centers in the USA and Australia as they sought solutions.

After being flown to Thailand, accompanied by a British nurse from the clinic in Kathmandu, she left. I was alone. So very sick and discouraged, I stared at the pictures of my little girls I’d left back in Nepal. I missed them and my husband terribly. I had no idea how long I would have to be in the hospital, or away from them. My husband was coming but had not yet arrived. It would take days for him to make arrangements for our kids and the work he’d have to leave behind.

One lonely and difficult day, my home church surprised me with kindness. They walked into my hospital room…a short-term team on their way to another country with a layover in Bangkok. Hearing how sick I was, they came to see me.

In they walked, carrying a video camera! They prayed for me, worshipped with me, then left a CD player and music to listen to. Their stay was only 15 minutes long, but it brought deep encouragement.

When the team returned home, a video of me in the hospital was played in our church. Thousands prayed for my healing and God answered.

I am so very grateful for the many, many, times our home church, Cedar Valley, has stood in the gap on our behalf. Their love, concern, support, and encouragement has made a huge difference in our success in the mission field!

Staying Connected

It has not always been easy to stay connected. Since going to the field, our church has gone through two major pastoral changes. Each time, we have had to work hard to get to know the new pastor, build a relationship, and establish trust. We’ve had new missions committee members, and many changes in church staff.

When we come home, it can feel a bit like we are “out of the loop.” We are no longer known to the new leaders. We don’t have much relationship anymore. At times we wonder, is it worth all this hard work to have a strong relationship with our “sending” body?

It absolutely is!

Paul & Barnabas Were Sent

“While they were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, “Set apart for me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them.” Then after fasting and praying they laid their hands on them and sent them off.”

Acts 13:2-3 ESV

Paul and Barnabas had a sending church. It was the church in Antioch. During a time of fasting and prayer, the church leaders felt God speak to them about sending these two out. They owned that decision and were a part of it. Later we find the team reporting back to the Antioch church about their missions activity.

It is easy to think we can go on our own. Gather friends and supporters and don’t worry about the hassle of getting your church’s backing. Pastors today, especially in large churches, can feel quite unapproachable if you are not well-known in the church or are young. Sometimes, they want you to contribute to the church’s local needs rather than step out in missions. That can be discouraging.

In spite of these barriers, it is still crucially important to pursue a positive relationship with your home body.

6 Ways to Grow a Strong Relationship with a Sending Church

1. Invest by serving

Before going to the field, be willing to serve. If you are not a faithful and active member, they are unlikely to “send” you. Get involved. Serve in the kids’ programs, ushering, cleaning, or in whatever needs to be done. Don’t think a church will support and send you if you have not prioritized contributing to the church’s vision.

When you return home, though time is short and it may be difficult, do your best to make a contribution. This will help renew relationships.

2. Share transparently about God’s call in your life, and the vision/dream on your heart.

Don’t wait for them to ask you to share. Find opportunities to talk about the need that has gripped your heart. One time when home, we made it a goal to request time to share in every Sunday school class and small group.

3. Invite them to give input, advice and to pray with you on major decisions

Honor your pastor, elders and other leaders by showing you value what they think. Don’t be afraid of their input. Listen and take it to heart.

4. Communicate often and well with church leaders

Don’t neglect communication when on the field. Make phone calls, send emails, or video messages. It shows you care. Fill out whatever forms they ask of you on time.

5. Go the extra mile to build a genuine relationship and to renew it

When on furlough, make an appointment with your pastor. Take him/her out for lunch or coffee and pay the bill. Ask questions about their vision for the church. Show genuine interest. Contribute where you can. If there are changes in leadership, you may need to work hard to get to know them. The relational investment will pay off.

6. Don’t make it about the money

Having a sending church that understands your vision and work is a great support. If they are able to support you financially, that is great. Don’t make the relationship about the money. Their prayers and sending of you are what is most important. Finances often follow, but should not be the main reason you connect with your home church.

Perseverance in Finding a Sending Base

My husband and I haven’t done this perfectly. Sometimes we’ve not put in the effort or have been too drained when we came home to do all that’s mentioned above. We keep pressing on.

Sometimes missionaries are sent, but later they lose their home base. Churches split, or a pastor has a moral failure and the church dissolves. What do you do then? You must find another church to send you. It’s worth the investment and effort. We need to think long-term.

What difficulties have you faced in developing a relationship with a sending church? I’d love to hear those in the comments below or in the Missionary Life Facebook group.

Is There a Joshua You Need to Commission?

Is There a Joshua You Need to Commission?

Pass the baton. You know this principle. 2 Timothy 2:2 says it so clearly. Paul discipled Timothy, Timothy entrusted the teaching to faithful men. They passed it on to others also. Leaders who hold on to authority may grow powerful. The scope of their ministry