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Finding Friendship in Unexpected Places

Finding Friendship in Unexpected Places

Have you ever been in a place where you have felt like the odd one out – everyone else has someone to relate to but you? All the successful mothers’ are sitting around chatting and having a nice warm cup of tea, and you are 

How to Have a Resilient, Healthy, Cross-Cultural Team

How to Have a Resilient, Healthy, Cross-Cultural Team

When Jesus called His disciples, He called them to serve together as a group, not as individuals. He gathered a team of twelve men and sent them out two by two. Though most of them were fishermen, each of them was unique in personality, character, 

What Does It Cost to Make My Vision a Reality?

What Does It Cost to Make My Vision a Reality?

Do you know how much money you need each month, and what you spend most of your money on?

If you answered no to any of the above questions, you probably don’t have a working plan for finances. This is part of our discipleship, growth, and is important to live a faithful, fruitful, and effective life as a missionary.

Treating Money Like Water

Some of us treat money like water. When we have it we turn on the tap. It runs through our fingers and is gone. Then, if there is a “water cut” we are helpless and unprepared. We struggle to meet basic needs.

This attitude can come from a misinterpretation of Scripture.

In the Sermon on the Mount (Mt. 5-7), Jesus talks about finances. He says “Do not worry… Do not be like the pagans chasing after food and clothes… Do not love money or have a divided heart.”

This makes some people think that money is not spiritual and we should not think about or plan our finances. That is not what Jesus is saying. The focus is: do not be consumed by money or enslaved to it.

Learning About Money Management

When you were a child living at home, did you used to worry if there would be food to eat? Or did you show up at dinner expecting to be fed? If our parents were able to provide for us, we grew up not even thinking about money. We trusted that we would be taken care of.

As you grew and became an adult, did you still behave like a child? Did your parents expect you to contribute to the financial running of the household? As you grew, did they start to share with you about finances? Or teach you about how to budget, save, and plan your spending? Perhaps you got a job, or earned some money and started to buy things yourself.

If your parents taught you about money, you have learned essential lessons. If not, then your Heavenly Father wants to teach you about finances now.

It is not too late! He wants to free you from worry, lack, and distress over your financial situation. When we feel stressed, we often want to avoid the stressor. We try to ignore it, saying, “No worries, God will provide”, but we live from one crisis to another.

Isn’t it unspiritual to plan and manage money?” you might wonder. “Isn’t that the opposite of living by faith?

No. God operates through what He has created. There are measured seasons, times of rain and dry, seasons of growth, fruit, and barrenness. Times of plenty and lack. Creatures learn in the created order to plan and respond to their available resources.

Observe the Ant

In Proverbs six, we are commanded to observe the ant.

“Go to the ant, you sluggard; consider its ways and be wise! It has no commander, no overseer or ruler, yet it stores its provisions in summer and gathers its food at harvest.

Prov 6:6-9
Look to the ant. They plan and store.

The first step to financial freedom is changing our beliefs about money and our role as stewards.

In a previous article, we discussed the importance of trusting God. Now we must look at partnering with God to be good stewards.

An Example of God’s Provision Through Financial Planning

Let me share a recent story of planning and managing finances. In 2019, God was speaking to my husband and me about a new regenerative farming vision. In 2020, we started preparing, and in 2021 we started the ministry. We knew we would need a lot of money to begin, and keep it running. How did we get the money to make it a reality?

This has been our financial planning process:

  • Getting the vision clear: We waited on God and wrote down the vision. We spent a long time discussing, and hearing from God. We asked our leaders and spiritual mentors for input. We talked about our dreams and disagreements until the vision was clear, and we were in unity.
  • Planning: We wrote down a list of items that we would need to buy for the vision. Then we did a lot of research about how much was item would cost. Finally, we did a timeline about when we would need the money to buy the different items. Once that was complete we knew how much we needed, what we needed it for, and when we needed the money.
  • Hearing God and making a strategy: We got on our knees to ask God for his provision, and strategy. God spoke a variety of things to us. He told us to save. We set aside 20% of our income to save for the upcoming expenses. We began to build a start-up capital fund. Then we opened a new, separate bank account to set money aside for the ministry. We knew we needed others to join us in the vision. This ministry is not for our personal gain, but for the building of the kingdom of God. We communicated the vision widely face to face, through phone calls, emails, and on social media. God spoke to us about asking some particular people to give for specific costs – like buying a sheep or a cow.
  • Prayer. We met and prayed together or alone daily, asking God for his provision. He gave us many Scriptures that fueled our faith.
  • Small steps of obedience. We obeyed by starting with the things that we could do. I have found as we are faithful to do our part in obeying God, He entrusts us with more. We started raising ducks, quail, vegetables, and fruit trees in our backyard. Once we had utilized all our space, God expanded our reach and opened up an opportunity to use a small farm.
  • Faithful record keeping. We keep a good record of all the money we spend, what we spend it on, and any income or financial gifts we get. Record keeping is important to stay accountable, be legal, and responsible to the authorities. It gives us an opportunity to be above reproach. It helps us see God’s incredible faithfulness and provision.

As you look at this list of activities, what are you doing to plan for your personal and ministry finances? The same principles apply in both areas.

What do you need to strengthen? Where could you begin to improve?

Let us know in the comments below or on the Missionary Life Facebook Group.

Sometimes finances and financial planning can feel like a huge mountain in front of us. Take one obedient step at a time, and you will succeed.

*This article was written by a guest contributor- R.M.

Need to Learn More About Financial Planning?

We have been working to create a relevant online course on fundraising and money management. It is particularly designed for missionaries from Asia, Africa, and Latin America. We hope to make this course available in the near future. Sign up below if you are interested.

Thankfulness- Kissed by God

Thankfulness- Kissed by God

I was surprised and blessed yet again. God loves to give us “kisses.” What does it mean to be “kissed” by God? That is what I call it when He blesses me with a small desire fulfilled, with something I don’t even need and certainly 

How Contagious is Your Hope?

How Contagious is Your Hope?

“10 million Americans have tested positive for the coronavirus. A Cambodian province closes schools after a leader of Hungary visited the country and tested positive. France and Italy report record cases as the virus ravages Europe.” We read these discouraging headlines and wonder if this 

How Do You Know If God Is Calling You to Missions?

How Do You Know If God Is Calling You to Missions?

Do you love to travel and new adventures? Eating new food and seeing new places? Do you find people who are from different cultures fascinating? If you answered yes to any of these things, missions might sound like a dream job to you!

Your heart burns for the nations. Even watching the international news makes you feel stirred to pray. Traveling is adventurous and exciting. How do you discern if you are called by God to missions, or going because it sounds fun? If you are interested in missions, I would suggest that God has already planted the missionary seed in your heart. We can often make “getting God’s call” more complicated than it should be.

Waiting For God to Send Me

I remember talking to a friend who answered yes to all the above questions. She had done mission training, had the financial backing of her family, and many invitations from teams on the field to join them. When I asked her where she was going to go, she said “Nowhere. I am waiting for God to send me.”

Many people say they would like to be missionaries, but don’t know where to go, or if God is calling them. They are waiting for some mysterious urge to make them go.

In my experience, this “call” does not usually come until we are already demonstrating our commitment to God by moving forward. As we take the first steps of obedience, then God confirms the direction.

Delight in Going

We are co-workers with Christ. He does not strong arm us into obedience. He is looking for our delight in going.

In Isaiah 6, God asks the question “Whom shall I send? Who shall go for us?” We see that Isaiah’s response was “Here I am send me.” God is looking for people who will go so He can then direct them.

A moving vehicle is much easier to direct

Think about steering a car, it is impossible to direct when it is stationary. It is only once it starts to move that you can turn the wheel, and direct it to the destination you desire.

The same with us.

Let’s get going! We are already obeying the general will of God because Jesus commands all His disciples to go (Mt 28:18).

How Can We “Go”?

  1. Pray: Start to pray for nations of the world. Sign up for missionary prayer letters. Contact missionaries you know and offer to pray for them. Start to invest yourself in prayer.
  2. Explore: Reach out to people around you, and look for opportunities to get trained, and to gain experience. If you hear of an opportunity that catches your heart – that you would like to go to, then go on a 1-3 month exploration trip. This gives you an opportunity to see what it is like, for the local team to meet you and see if it would be a good fit.
  3. Serve: Work wholeheartedly wherever you are. Be willing to put effort into getting equipped. You don’t have to go to seminary but learn from God in his school of life every day. Don’t wait to serve God one day. Start today in your own home.
  4. Commit: Once you do sense God’s call on you to a place, people, or ministry, commit yourself to see a work completed rather than to a period of time. Persevere until you see God’s word fulfilled, even if it is tough.

Missionary work has great challenges.

“There are three stages to every great work of God; first it is impossible, then it is difficult, then it is done.”

Hudson Taylor

Commit yourself to get it done. Don’t quit!

After you have been following God’s path for a while, you will turn around, look back, and recognize that He has been leading you faithfully step by step.

Move Forward

Don’t hold back in fear or doubt. Step forward! Jesus is the good shepherd and He will find you if you wander!

Just keep following His voice.

What questions do you have about the “call of God”?

Share in the comments below or ask us on the Missionary Life Facebook page.

Do you need a community to process these questions with as you discover your calling? Check out the YWAM Frontier Missions short online course called Next Steps in Missions.

*this was a guest post by R.M.

5 Ways to Keep Vision Burning Hot (and Avoid Giving Up)

5 Ways to Keep Vision Burning Hot (and Avoid Giving Up)

Quitting is not altogether bad. There are some things we need to quit. Often, though, we need to persevere. The temptation to “give up and go home” is common, particularly in the first four years of missionary life. The same is true when working on 

3 Important Habits to Deepen Your Intimacy With God

3 Important Habits to Deepen Your Intimacy With God

Intimacy with God must be the constant pursuit of any disciple of Jesus. This is even more true of those of us who want to see Kingdom impact through our lives and ministries. The following article is a guest contribution by Kima Hmar. A dependent 

Three Habits to Make Your Marriage Strong and Healthy

Three Habits to Make Your Marriage Strong and Healthy

When I was ordained as a pastor, I was given a book called “Choosing to Cheat.”  That’s a strange title, I thought. The author wrote about the danger of cheating on our spouses by giving our best time and energy to the ministry we do. Instead, he wrote, we need to choose to “cheat on” our ministry and give our best to our marriage. 

It is easier said then done. 

As leaders in ministry, we are passionate about what we do. The weight of our vision and plans weigh heavy on us at times. We’ve given ourselves fully to God and His work. This is right and good.  It is not God’s will, however, that your spouse is at the bottom of your priority list.

It is easy to take our wives or husbands for granted. We know they are committed to us. They love us unconditionally.  We know they will stand by us even when we are not our best selves. Unthinkingly, we give them the scraps left over at the end of a long, full, ministry day. This is not fair to our spouses, nor is it good for the ministry.

Having a healthy, pleasurable marriage is God’s will. When your marriage is strong, it impacts others around you in wonderful, positive ways. Your love relationship with your spouse becomes a source of life and joy. That blessing overflows to many. If we desire to impact the least, last and lost, investing in your marriage is not optional. 

Life in a Fishbowl

My neighbors watch me. They see the way I take care of our garden. My exercise routines are known to them. When we are out of town, they know about it. I don’t always like feeling like a fish in a fishbowl. It sometimes makes me feel a bit exposed.  It’s a reality though.

One of my neighbors in Thailand recently built a high wall around his house. We can’t see in and they can’t see out. This is not common. More often, people see you. You may not think they pay attention, but they do.

I like to walk and run in my neighborhood. One day I was walking with one of my Thai neighbors. Somehow the topic of my husband came up. “You are so lucky,” they said. “You have a very good husband.” They had observed the kindness with which he treats me. Visiting our home, they had seen flowers on my table that he bought to bless me. Our marriage was noticed and impacted those around us. When we are at peace with one another, people feel that when they enter our home.

The other day, here in the USA, a neighbor said to me, “I feel a sense of peace coming from your home.” It surprised me. It’s the presence of Jesus in us as we love and care for one another. 

Keeping our marriage happy and healthy requires effort. We’ve also put some habits in place that help. 

Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.

1 Peter 4:8 ESV.

Three Habits for a Healthy Marriage

1. Express appreciation daily.

If I had to choose one habit out of many to emphasize to other couples, I would choose appreciation. Fix a time each day when you speak out two or three sentences of appreciation for your spouse to them. Be specific and show that you notice both who they are and what they do.

You can say things like:

“I appreciate that you work hard to keep our house clean.”

“I appreciate your deep passion for the lost.”

“I appreciate how hard you work to provide for us.”

I think you get the idea. Appreciation lifts the spirit and connects the heart. 

When is the last time you spoke out words of appreciation to your wife or husband?

2. Set fixed times to communicate and plan.

A few years ago my husband and I started setting aside time every Saturday morning for a planning meeting with each other. In the midst of our busy ministry, we had a hard time keeping up with our own lives and family. By setting this time aside regularly, it saved us from having to try to ask each other about family needs in the midst of a busy workday. We would simply write it down on a list and then have it ready for our regular weekly meeting. 

In that meeting, we talked about things like our travel schedules. Upcoming holidays, birthday plans, financial issues, and decisions, were on the agenda. Our personal hopes and dreams, hobbies, etc. had space to be talked about as well. It has helped us immensely to have this regular time to communicate about “us.” 

At first, it felt formal and a bit strange to be having a “meeting” about such things with my spouse. The pressure it relieved was well worth our initial awkwardness! Try doing this for a month, setting aside one hour every week for communication and planning about your lives together. I can almost guarantee that this will improve your marriage. 

3. Listen well. 

Especially when things get busy or stressed, it is hard to truly “hear” one another. We don’t take time to listen well, but tend to react and defend ourselves. Instead, practice reflective listening. Take turns speaking where the other spouse simply repeats back in their own words what they heard being said. Learning to listen well and reflect back is an important marriage skill! It makes the other person feel valued and heard. 

In the last article on healthy singleness, I mentioned the author of the book Emotionally Healthy Spirituality, Peter Scazzero. This author and his books have changed me greatly and I highly recommend them. 

Scarzzero’s writings were where I first felt challenged to let my ministry flow out of my marriage. Instead of simply maintaining our marriages to make sure our ministry survives, we can develop and invest in our marriages. Out of them, life and health overflow into our ministry. 

Which of the three habits mentioned above will you work on this week?

Share in the comments below or on the Missionary Life Facebook group

10 Most Important Qualities of a Cross-Cultural Minister

10 Most Important Qualities of a Cross-Cultural Minister

How did Jesus choose His disciples? They were an unlikely group. Fishermen, a tax collector, a random doctor thrown into the mix. What did He look for in those who would serve alongside Him? Throughout history, God has chosen unlikely people to do His work.