Living faithful, fruitful and fulfilled on the mission field
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I was surprised and blessed yet again. God loves to give us “kisses.” What does it mean to be “kissed” by God? That is what I call it when He blesses me with a small desire fulfilled, with something I don’t even need and certainly don’t deserve. He seems to delight in doing that!
Last week we were visiting friends. We came home with a new blender in our car. I’d so enjoyed the delicious smoothies we’d had at their home. As we got ready to leave, my friend handed me a blender. It was an appliance I didn’t have. I’d looked at them and thought them too costly to purchase. Now, I was unpacking one and putting it in the cupboard. How could I possibly be so blessed yet again!
This same week I’ve faced significant loss and pain. Someone I love deeply attacked. They want to cut off our relationship. I’ve been accused of things I didn’t do. It hurts. That definitely wasn’t a kiss.
Blessing and pain. Joy and sorrow. They weave their way through our lives continually.
Some have said that joy and sorrow are like two rails on a train track. Life is never completely separated from either track. We learn to accept sorrow with joy, and joy with sorrow. To do this well we must learn to live a life of constant gratefulness. We can not let the hardships blind us to the joys.
Missionary life comes with grief and hardship. It also comes with incredible joy and blessing. We sometimes ask, which will I focus on?
Perhaps that is not the right question. A better question is; what can I be thankful for?
Practicing gratefulness is a key habit for a life of fruitfulness in missions.
Americans celebrated Thanksgiving a day or two ago. Families gathered and ate together. There was laughter and at times there were tears. Some families mourned the loss of a loved one. There was someone no longer with them this year. It hurt. In the midst of the celebration, their hearts grieved.
For those on the mission field, holidays can be hard. We miss family back home. At times we feel left out or forgotten. You pick up the phone and hear the happy voices, the kids playing in the background, and your heart breaks. You wish you could be there too.
You may not be an American who celebrated this particular holiday. The feeling I’m describing, however, is something we all face at times.
Choose to thank God for His many blessings. Here are a few of mine.
I’m grateful for His love and redemption.
I’m grateful for the hope He gives.
I’m so thankful that I serve a God of the impossible, a God who restores and heals.
I’m thanking Him today for my co-workers, even with their many issues and own unique quirks.
I’m thankful for great leadership in my organization, for the blessing of the covering and direction they provide.
I’m grateful for our amazing prayer and financial partners, those who have sent us out to do what we do.
I’m so thankful God chose me and appointed me to bear fruit in His harvest fields.
I’m thankful for good health, for strength and for the ability to live another day for His purposes.
I am grateful for a rich Christian heritage, for parents who love God and set an example for me.
I’m thankful for our children- both our physical and spiritual kids.
The list could go on and on.
A friend posted on Facebook the other day a kids activity. It was to take the alphabet and think of one thing you are thankful for related to each letter. Not a bad idea.
"In everything give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you." 1 Thess. 5:18 KJV
What are you thankful for today?
In the midst of pain, frustration or hurt, reach out to God in thanksgiving. As you give thanks, your heart will fill with wonder and joy. People will see the difference in your attitudes and actions and be drawn to our Savior.
So once again, let me ask. What are you most grateful for today? I’d love to hear about it in the comments below.
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Quitting is not altogether bad. There are some things we need to quit. Often, though, we need to persevere. The temptation to “give up and go home” is common, particularly in the first four years of missionary life. The same is true when working on a new vision. Remain steady, knowing God called you to that place or work. Your vision, passion, and focus can remain fire-hot through difficult seasons.
Last week, I went away to a cabin in the woods. It was cold. I often built a fire in the beautiful fireplace. Building the fire was fun. It was exciting to light the paper and watch it burst into flame. After an hour or two, it needed tending. I needed to add more wood, stir it up a bit, and blow on it. Our calling and vision are not different. Without tending, vision dies down. This is true even when the vision was placed in our heart by God Himself.
I recommend five practices that add fuel to the flame of vision. Whether you are a classic visionary or are following a vision someone else shared, these practices will help. You can stay passionate and focused on the things God has called you to do.
In our work as mission leaders, we often had the privilege (and responsibility) of welcoming new field workers. We’d give them orientation, help them settle into their new homes, and get them set up with language helpers. I confess I didn’t always put much weight on the vision and dreams of new field workers. First I wanted to see if they had what it takes to stay for the long haul. Then, I was far more likely to listen to and support their dreams.
One young family came to the field full of passion. Energetic and excited, they were ready to dive in to saving the lost and feeding the poor. I got excited when they shared their vision. Their enthusiasm was contagious.
“I sure hope these guys stick!” I thought. I’d seen many people come and go. They’d arrive with a vision that would take years to accomplish. Two or three months in, or even a year or so later, suddenly, their vision changed. They now felt called to return to their home country. Would this new family be different? I hoped so!
They’d spend many months raising their funds to get there. Donors had contributed sacrificially. They too had made significant efforts working overtime and selling off things they owned. Now, they had arrived. Time would tell whether they would stay.
I wish I’d known then, what I know now. These five keys to keeping your vision alive are something I would have shared with them. Sadly, six months later, discouraged and disillusioned, they boarded a flight and returned to their home country. Soon others would come and the unfortunate cycle would begin again.
Missionary attrition can be avoided. It does take work. Vision does not need to die. You don’t need to quit and go home.
“Son of man, what is this proverb you have in the land of Israel: ‘The days go by and every vision comes to nothing’? Say to them, ‘This is what the Sovereign Lord says: I am going to put an end to this proverb, and they will no longer quote it in Israel.’ Say to them, ‘The days are near when every vision will be fulfilled.
Ezekiel 12:22-23 NIV.
In my YWAM Discipleship Training School (DTS) many years ago, a speaker taught us about how to hear God’s voice. I remember something he said.
“When you don’t hear anything from God, go back to the last thing you heard Him say. Simply remind yourself of that. Keep doing that thing until He speaks again.”
It was good advice.
I often re-read journals and things I’ve write down that God spoke to me. These are a rich source of vision nourishment. Re-reading prophetic words given you is also a way to throw fresh wood on the fire of your passion. Bill Johnson, of Bethel Redding, speaks about this. When is the last time you took the time to remember what God spoke to you when you first heard His calling to this ministry?
Conflicts, meetings, daily life tasks, social media and email, all threaten to pull us away from our calling. Keep your vision in front of you. Write it out. Put it on your desk, refridgerator door or bathroom mirror. Some place where you will see it often. Remember that those other things, while sometimes necessary, are not the main thing.
I read a meme recently that said “If it is not going to matter 5 years from now, don’t invest more than 5 minutes worrying about it.” Don’t invest energy and emotion in the things that don’t matter. Give yourself to taking concrete steps and to activities that move you forward in what you are called by God to do.
Does your current task contribute to that vision? A high percentage of your activities should be related to the “main thing” God has called you to. If not, you will start to feel burned out and your original vision will grow cold.
It is okay to say no to other things not related to your unique calling. Without devoting a significant amount of time doing what you feel called to do, vision will wither. Some organizations give more freedom in this area than others.
If you find that you are expected to give the majority of your time to things you don’t feel called to do, make an appointment with your supervisor. Renegotiate your job description. Let them know how you are feeling.
Don’t wait until you have lost your vision entirely. Take action now to give more of your time to what matters most.
We become like those we spend time with. Do you invest time in relationships with others who share your passion and dream? With people of faith, who are already doing more than you are in that area?
When I am around others who share my passion and dreams, it pours kerosene on my vision fire. I start to get new ideas and become creative.
If you surround yourself with nay-sayers and those who with negative mindsets, your vision will grow dim.
This seems obvious but needs saying. Jesus, in the midst of His busy ministry, took time away to be with His Father. It was there that He gained strength, hope, and was renewed. Don’t consider it a vacation. Retreats and sabbaths are crucial to keeping your vision burning and to stay focused on the things God has spoken to you.
What will you do this week to fan the flame of your God-given dream?
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How did Jesus choose His disciples? They were an unlikely group. Fishermen, a tax collector, a random doctor thrown into the mix. What did He look for in those who would serve alongside Him? Throughout history, God has chosen unlikely people to do His work. What characteristics are most important in the life of a cross-cultural minister?
We are born with personality traits. They are a matter of DNA, handed down by our parents. Other traits develop in early childhood. You don’t choose whether you are an introvert or an extrovert.
Character, however, is developed. It grows both in adolescence and adulthood. We can choose to intentionally embrace God’s transforming work in our lives. He prunes and develops us. Through this, we grow into the person He wants us to be. This article looks at this issue particularly as it pertains to those who minister cross-culturally.
Many qualities of an effective missionary are developed in the field. As we go, labor, and struggle, these things grow in us. Some can be worked on before entering life as a cross-cultural minister.
This can not be over-emphasized. It is out of our life with God that everything flows. As we abide in Him, we bear much fruit. Apart from Him, we can do nothing (John 15:16).
Our understanding of His character creates the foundation through which we interpret life. This is true both for our own lives, and as we help others. We come to understand His character through the study of His Word. We also learn who He is as we experience His character manifested through circumstances.
I knew God as Healer, Provider, and Grace-giver as I experienced Him being those things for me on the field.
We grow in understanding of His love. We learn to find satisfaction in God Himself, not in fruit or results. (No matter how much pressure you feel to write those exciting letters to supporters back home!) His purposes and His glory become our driving motivation for our work. This happens as we grow in an ever-deeper relationship with Jesus.
Our world markets freedom from hardship as a virtue. Yet suffering is both a normal and important part of a disciple’s life. Jesus said, “In this world, you will have trouble. Don’t be dismayed. I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33). Paul writes of wanting to know Christ and fellowship with Him in suffering (Phil. 3:10).
Unless we are willing to embrace a life of hardship, we can not become effective cross-cultural ministers. This begins with a deep surrender to the Lordship of Jesus. It also requires a firmly held belief in the goodness of God, no matter what we go through.
We learn to endure trials, difficulties, persecution, temptation, pain, and hardship as good soldiers. (2 Tim. 2:3-5). But soldiers who are deeply loved by a good, good Father who cares for us.
While we do not want to suffer, when it comes, we allow God to use it to form His character in us and draw us into His embrace.
Compassion, empathy, and a servant’s heart must become part of who we are. The source of these characteristics is our relationship with Jesus. As we spend time with Him, we catch His heart for the lost.
The Master wept over Jerusalem, His heart was broken over their resistance to His truth. Do the things that break God’s heart break yours? Are you able to see the people around you with His eyes of love and compassion?
Our ability to empathize with others is vital if we want to minister. As we identify with their context, needs, and situation we are able to communicate God’s truth in a way they will understand.
If we come as a Savior, we will fail. Only Christ can save. If we come with the heart of a servant, His salvation will flow through us.
One thing that sustains people in the field is knowing God has called them there. This may be a supernatural encounter you point to. It may simply be a deep knowing that comes from the study of His Word and the Great Commission. Either way, you need to know that God has directed you to the work you do. This foundational sense of calling from God will keep you in the times you desperately want to quit and go home.
When vision and passion are clear, you are also more able to focus and “keep the main thing the main thing.”
Many missionaries drift into activities not related to their original call. Sometimes, God is redirecting. Other times, we need to realign ourselves. We must go back to what God spoke in the beginning.
A cross-cultural minister must be willing to take risks and try new things. Be it food, or a new cultural dance, our lives require us to step outside of what is comfortable.
This is true when it comes to sharing the good news with those around us as well. Not everyone has an extroverted personality. Not everyone is born an optimist.
Faith and boldness, however, are qualities God develops within us. As we take steps outside our natural abilities, these characteristics begin to grow. They are the fruit of His Spirit’s work in us.
These can be developed before going to the mission field. You never stop growing in these though!
Choosing to be flexible means letting go of control. This is difficult. In a cross-cultural ministry context, it will make or break you.
It is so natural for us to want to go into a cross-cultural environment as a teacher rather than a learner. Jesus modeled a different approach. In the book of Philippians, we see He took on the form of a baby and servant, not a King. In any cross-cultural work, learn before you teach. Humility and a posture of learning make you far more effective.
Hospitality is an often overlooked qualification for spiritual eldership. It is mentioned in both 1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:8.
As we engage with people of other worldviews, the need to exercise this gift is even more important.
In Western culture, hospitality is on the decline. Our busy lives prevent us from making time to invite someone into our home for a cup of coffee, or a meal. Those who learn to practice hospitality generously have deeper relationships of trust with those they want to reach.
There is strength when we work in teams. That doesn’t mean it’s easy! For those with high D (DISC test) personalities, working with others who also have strong leadership qualities can be difficult. Cross-cultural relationships present unique challenges. Yet those with a lone-ranger approach, rarely are sustained and effective on the field.
Though this is listed as number ten, it is critically important to our emotional and spiritual health as cross-cultural ministers. Peter Scazerro’s books on emotionally healthy spirituality give insight on this important topic. Our marriage and family must be a source of life, the place from which we minister. Healthy singleness becomes a source of nourishment for others.
Take a few moments to assess yourself in these ten qualities. Where do you need to grow? Where are you already strong? Talk to a friend or co-worker this week. Decide on two or three actions you want to take to grow in your weak areas.
What other qualities are important? Share in the comments below or on the Missionary Life Facebook group.
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